Tuesday, March 6, 2012

My So-Called Life as a Proverbs 31 Wife


Although I have completed a doctoral degree, I often find myself wondering if I should have gotten a Ph.D. in marriage. Seriously. I love being married and I love my husband even more than that, but I find myself learning more and more about how to be a good Christian wife everyday.

I really enjoy reading and I have made it a point to vary the types of books I read (regular fiction, academic, research related, Christian fiction, marriage, and so on). I just finished reading a book titled, "My So-Called Life as a Proverbs 31 Wife" and I would recommend it to any married woman or woman considering marriage. When I read the description of the Proverbs 31 wife, I felt annoyed (I mean, who can really do all of that?) and unworthy (All of that seems overwhelming so, I am not cut out to be a Christian wife). However, the author, Sara Horn, uses this book to share her own obstacles, frustrations, and successes of her one year experiment to become a Proverbs 31 wife. Her story is reflective, inspirational, motivational, and funny. If nothing else, I found myself feeling a little better  about my "wife abilities" when I read about some of her mishaps during the journey. She even ends the book with a 10-day experiment for you to try and several easy recipes to make for your family.

As women, I know we often struggle with the Work/Life balance. I work from home a lot of the times and I could easily work all day and all night. I enjoy my career and I value the work that I do, but I know that I don't do a great job of balancing work with the other things that are important. This book is a fun read, but also helped me to reflect on different aspects of my life. If you are interested click here to read a sample chapter. I would love to know what you think about the Proverbs 31 wife or the book that can be found here.

Thanks for reading and please share your thoughts.

2 comments:

  1. Hey Doc!
    First time on your blog, awesome job! Do you recommend that men to read this book as well? I have a book called, "In research of the Proverbs 31 Man" by Michelle McKinney-Hammond. Extremely helpful for both men and women to read. Thank you for sharing...I think I will get the book just to see if I can find some additional insight into how women think and understand their perspective. More importantly, maybe I will learn another way to serve my future wife...wherever she is! :)

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  2. Hmm. I will have to check that out. The whole time I was reading this, I wondered "Where is the man's Proverbs 31." I think it could be great for men to read. Keep checking out the blog and I may have a review of "In research of the Proverbs 31 Man" soon.

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